Love is hard

Love is hard,,, a sentence I didn't know how absurd and wrong it is up till now..
Love is not hard... Love is not complicated...

We tend to see the things in our own way... Things are our reflection indeed..

So if I say that love is hard, then I am hard.. If I say love is complicated, then am complicating things up..

Not just love, pretty much every feeling between human beings is treated and looked at the same way..

If two people love and care for each other, doesn't have to be love as people in love, it can be a mother with her son or daughter, two friends, etc...
The first one can verbally express what he/she feels and the other one can not..
This doesn't mean that the second one doesn't have anything to say, it means that this person is different in expressing..
May be he/she express their feelings through painting, may be through writing, may be through caring in a certain way...

Here is what makes it an issue..

The first one who can actually verbally show, gets mad at the second one.. Thinking that he/she is emotionless and careless...
Which is totally wrong but the truth to him/her is unseen..
Afterwards, because it is hard for people to change (or change relatively  fast), people end up in fights, quarrels, debates and they find themselves trapped into a dead ended road.. Leading, eventually,  to losing each other.. 

The key point to this, is doing what u are able to do, expect that people are different. And accept it. So finding someone who does things exactly the way you do might be a tricky one to find. Understand people the way they are.. Love them the way they are.. Don't try to complicate things or overthink it.. 

And may be, you will at least have your peace of mind...